Solutions

Here is the problem:

I am thinking too much about the way others perceive me.

I am not thinking too much about others, but the way that it's about ME so what I need to do is think less about me and more about other people.

The solution is to get into other people more.

I should not try to pretend to be a martyr or a perfect person because noone is. I am not Sleeping Beauty.

I should look to others more than myself and worry whether they are happy not whether I am happy about what they think. There's a difference.